Kandar Anubhūti – Mantra Prayoga – 04
Kandar Anubhūti – Mantra Prayoga – 04
For Gaining the Support of Wife, Husband, and Family in Spiritual Practice
The Siddha Guru who instructed Tiyāgarāja Mudaliyār gave this hymn the title:
“Ethirivinaiyāl Erindha Kudikku” – For a household afflicted by hostile forces.
It was taught as a prayoga to protect families under strain due to enmity and karmic obstacles.
Tiyāgarāja Mudaliyār, however, interprets this hymn as a prayoga for spiritual advancement—specifically, to transform family members into companions of sādhana rather than obstacles.
The Problem Addressed
Many sādhakas find that their wives, husbands, or children do not cooperate in their spiritual practice; instead, they may even hinder it.
- Often, this happens because of attachments (pāśa) in the sādhaka’s own mind:
- Excessive anxiety about wife and children,
- Fear of “What will happen to them if I am not there?”,
- Relentless busyness with family and work at the cost of one’s own spiritual growth.
In the end, the same family for whom one sacrificed sādhana may begin to disregard or even trouble the sādhaka, leading to lament:
“I struggled so much for them, yet they do not honor me.”
Guru Nātha Kaṇṇaiya Yogi used to say:
“Only he who does not abandon his sādhana for the sake of wife, children, or relatives is truly my disciple.”
Thus, the one who neglects daily time for spiritual growth in the name of family duty is still bound by the three malas (impurities):
- Āṇava Mala – Egoism (“my wife, my children”),
- Karma Mala – Binding sense of duty (“I must protect them”),
- Māyā Mala – Attachment that veils true wisdom.
These three are symbolized as the demons Sūrapadman, Siṅgamukha, and Tāraka, along with the mountain Krauñca, all of whom obstruct divine vision.
The Hymn
Tamil Verse (4th Hymn):
வளைபட்டகைம் மாதொடு மக்க ளெனும்
தளைபட்டழியத் தகுமோ தகுமோ
கிளைபட்டெழு சூருரமும் கிரியும்
தொளைபட்டுருவத் தொடு வேலவனே
Meaning & Spiritual Teaching
Arunagirināthar questions emphatically (“thagumō thagumō” – “Is it proper? Is it proper?”):
- Is it right that one’s wife and children, who should be supports to the soul’s journey, become shackles that obstruct spiritual progress?
- True, not all women or family members create bondage; some can become true jñāna-śakti, a force of wisdom and support. But the sādhaka must discern rightly and not create vain attachments.
Muruga, with his spear of knowledge (Vēl), pierced and transformed the asuras (Sūrapadman, Siṅgamukha, Tāraka) and even made their forms into his emblems—the rooster and peacock.
This shows that the very forces of obstruction, when touched by divine knowledge, can be transformed into adornments that aid spiritual progress.
Similarly, through worship of Muruga, the sādhaka’s family—though initially influenced by the three malas—can be transformed into companions who support his soul’s pursuit.
Practical Mantra Prayoga
- While reciting this hymn, the sādhaka must visualize:
- The ignorance in his family being dispelled,
- The three impurities (āṇava, karma, māyā) being destroyed,
- Muruga’s spear of wisdom transforming wife, husband, and children into allies of sādhana.
- This hymn has its own specific yantra and mūlamantra revealed by the Siddha Guru.
- By practicing under the Guru’s guidance, the sādhaka receives Muruga’s grace to harmonize spiritual life and family life.
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